Hello Men,
Take this quiz. Do any of these statements apply to you?
- I believe that my partner is the source of my sexual fire.
- I sometimes ejaculate sooner than I’d like.
- In my sexual experience, orgasm equals ejaculation.
- After sex, I usually feel drained and depleted, not refreshed and energized.
- The best thing about sex is when I’m giving my partner a lot of pleasure.
- In bed, I have trouble asking specifically for what I want from my partner.
- I don’t know what to do with all of this sexual energy I have.
- I spend more time with pornography than I think is healthy for me.
- I’m beginning to think my “nice guy” strategy isn’t working for me, inside or outside of the bedroom.
- I get the sense that there’s more to sex than I’m experiencing.
If you said "yes" to any of these, you could benefit from attending the Full-Body Orgasm for Men training program.
1. The Full-Body Orgasm is about you receiving from you. Learning to give to yourself first puts you in right relationship with those closest to you. It’s also an essential piece of the broad base you need in order for you to fully give all your gifts to the world.
2. You are naturally a full-body orgasmic being. You’ve learned otherwise during your time on earth so far. As you release blocks and restrictions — the boulders and rocks in your energy “stream” — your natural, original energy will flow.
3. Only a small percentage of being a great lover is about mastering a technique to please your partner. You'll have much greater success (connection, pleasure, and intimacy) simply by being alive in your skin, present, agenda-free, and surrendered to Source as it moves through you.
4. The key to unlocking greater bodily pleasure is to use the energy contained in the genitals to move beyond a genital-based experience. There are a number of ways to do this; finding the best way or ways for you is what the FBO program is all about.
The FBO training program brings together practices from a number of disciplines, including those outlined in Mantak Chia’s Cultivating Male Sexual Energy, Margot Anand’s The Art of Sexual Ecsatsy, and David Deida’s unpublished The Way of the Superior Lover. Other modalities include dance, movement, and voice work. You’ll learn body-opening practices that you can accomplish on your own; explore the 3 keys to orgasmic energy; practice the “ME” breath (to delay ejaculation) and the “YOU” breath (to ground yourself and open your partner to the Divine.)
Every man is capable of producing his own full-body orgasm. This training program is your chance to unlock your sexual potential in a safe, focused environment.
You’ve been waiting for this opportunity. Just say yes!
Your guide in this process is Jim Benson, an experienced men’s group leader and tantra coach. For more about Jim click here.
A note from Jim:
Guys, I haven’t been this excited about a program since my first Awakened Masculine group almost five years ago. I’m putting everything that I know about tantric practices for men in an easily assimilable program that will change your sex life for real. I’ve tested other multi-orgasmic techniques and I’m including the best of those practices as well. I'm also modifying the training to accommodate the great feedback I received from the guys who attended the four-month FBO pilot program this past winter.
I believe this work is healing medicine for the planet. Men who take greater responsibility for their sexuality and pleasure automatically begin to take greater responsibility for their entire lives. Are you one of those men? Come and experience greater ecstasy in your world, and help change the whole world — one Full-Body Orgasm at a time!
I hope to see you in our group.
What guys in the group are saying:
"At the age of 63 and after four months of the FBO training, I had an incredible full-body orgasm with my partner. We are both thrilled, and looking forward to more! Thank you, Jim, for your guidance and inspiration. You help me feel and act like the vessel of love I want to be."
—Charles B., M.D.
"This course is a real breakthrough in applying ancient tantric wisdom to increase men's sensual pleasure — and by extension, women's. I have literally doubled my own pleasure during this course, with further increases as I continued to apply the skills I learned there."
—Michael Hagerty, professor, UC Davis
"The FBO training helped re-open my excitement and curiosity about who and what I am. The practices helped open new pathways for pleasure in my body, which in turn encouraged me to look, play, and discover more on my own. Now I more clearly see how sexuality and pleasure are part of the innate wisdom designed to wake us up as human beings. Jim models what he teaches: an open, curious, and embodied wisdom. A thousand blessings for this gift, my friend!
—Chris White, M.D., integral coach
"Jim is a fabulous coach in this training. You can read books and watch DVDs about multiple orgasms, but you won't really get it until you've circled with other men and been held accountable with these powerful practices."
—Brad N., software genius
"FBO for Men is the complete package. The group camraderie, the multiple techniques, Jim's embodied leadership, the panel of experts, the conference calls and homework — all conspired to radically expand my palette of pleasure. This training rocks!"
—William Wandall
The details:
- You do not need a partner to learn Full-Body Orgasm skills.
- There is no nudity during the training sessions.
- No previous experience is required.
- Training sessions are four hours long, and are held once a month on a Sunday.
- Participants will be asked to practice at home between training sessions and keep a FBO journal.
- A conference call to answer questions and concerns will be scheduled between sessions.
Cost: $100 per month. First month for new men: $125 (except FBO pilot program attendees). Includes one 4-hour training class and a one-hour group conference call with Jim. Drop-in basis: Attend one month or all nine!
Session Dates: Sundays in 2008, April 13, May 11, June 8 (note date change), July 13, August 10, September 14, October 12, November 16 (note date change), December 14. Conference calls are held on the Sunday evening two weeks after each in-person training.
Session Times: 2:00 — 6:00pm
Location: Albany, CA
To Register: Call Jim Benson at (831) 464-1746 or email him at
